Maybe I'll get it with this post. Maybe I won't.
The idea 'A wife will either half or double her husband's ministry' is commonly tossed around.
But you never hear the inverse, which is just as true: A husband will either double or half his wife's ministry.
A husband who is lazy, overly exacting, tyrannical, angry, undisciplined, demanding, high maintenance, ungodly, burdensome... will reduce his wife's capacity to love and serve her children, friends and church. Of course he will.