Twas time to get us a 'where did I come from' book. So we went on down to Koorong. I had a title in mind that looked okay on the internet, so I went and found it in the store expecting to just grab it and go. I'm glad I looked inside first. The book (which was supposed to be aimed at 6-9 year old boys) recommended that when our kids ask 'where did I come from' we start by reframing the question.
Here's how the conversation is meant to go:
Boy: Mommy (yes, spelt that way), where did I come from?
Parent: Son, you mean you want to know how you grew inside me?
Boy: Yes, that's it.
Parent: Well you started small. See these pro-life photos here of a very tiny baby? Then you got bigger and bigger. See these pro-life photos? That's how it happened.
Boy: God sure made me special. Babies are special right from the very beginning. I'm so glad to be in your family, mom. And in God's family too!
Parent: Son, you're a credit to us. Come and ask any time you want to see more photos of babies before they are born.
End of conversation.
Now, of course I have nothing against teaching our kids to value life right from the very beginning. And I hope we've always done that. But I think that this book was kind of missing the point. Don't you think?
This is the book we ended up with. It just says things as they are.
I had the "birds and bees" talk with all my boys before they went to school, they were 5 or 6 years old...
ReplyDeleteyeah. We've told our kids bits and pieces before. This was the putting it all together talk.
ReplyDeletehee hee. Love your summary of that book!
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