Showing posts with label personality stuff. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personality stuff. Show all posts

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Kolb learning styles model

Yesterday I went to a workshop on accommodating different learning styles while teaching kids and youth. It was good stuff. One model we heard about was that of Kolb. It's pretty cool.


This is the basic cycle of learning. We experience something, reflect on it, theorize about it, apply those theories... then start again. For learning to happen, the whole cycle needs to occur



There are two dimensions to the learning process: 1. grasping the experiencing and 2. transforming the experience. We grasp experience by feeling/doing (concrete experience) and by thinking/theorizing (abstract conceptualization). All of us will have a preference for grasping our experience either concretely or abstractly. We transform experience by watching/reflecting (observation/reflection) and by doing/applying (active experimentation). Again, we'll each have a preference for one of these. Kolb's learning style inventory measures our preferred ways of grasping and transforming experience, and categorizes us as an accomodator, a diverger, a converger or an assimilator.



There's a very quick 5 question test you can do over here. I'm an Accomodator.
ACCOMMODATOR.- Those with highest scores in Concrete Experience (CE) and Active Experimentation (AE). Accommodators are polar opposites form Assimilators. Their greatest strengths lie in carrying out plans and experiments and involving themselves in new experiences. They are risk-takers and excel in those situations requiring quick decisions and adaptations. In situations where a theory or plan does not fit the "facts," they tend to discard it and try something else. They often solve problems in an intuitive trial and error manner, relying heavily on other people for information. Accomodators are at ease with people but may be seen as impatient and "pushy." Their educational background is often in practical fields such as business or education. They prefer “action-oriented" jobs such as nursing, teaching, marketing, or sales.

I think Andrew is a converger.
CONVERGER - Those with highest scores in Abstract Conceptualization (AC) and Active Experimentation (AE). This person's greatest strength lies in the practical application of ideas. A person with this style seems to do best in those situations where there is a single correct answer or solution to a question or problem and can focus on specific problems or situations. Research on this style of learning shows that Convergers are relatively unemotional, preferring to deal with things rather than people. They often choose to specialize in the physical sciences, engineering, and computer sciences.


If you spend heaps of time reflecting and then theorizing (and you don't seem to get much else done) you might be an assimilator.
ASSIMILATOR - Those with highest scores in Abstract Conceptualization (AC) and Reflective Observation (RO). This person's strength lies in the ability to understand and create theories. A person with this learning style excels in inductive reasoning and in synthesizing various ideas and observations into an integrated whole. This person, like the converger, is less interested in people and more concerned with abstract concepts, but is less concerned with the practical use of theories. For this person it is more important that the theory be logically sound and precise; in a situation where a theory or plan does not fit the "facts," the Assimilator would be likely to disregard or re-examine the facts. As a result, this learning style is more characteristic of the basic sciences and mathematics rather than the applied sciences. Assimilators often choose careers involving research and planning. 

Otherwise, you could be a diverger.
DIVERGER - Those with highest scores in Concrete Experience (CE) and Reflective Observation (RO). Divergers have characteristics opposite from convergers. Their greatest strengths lie in creativity and imaginative ability. A person with this learning style excels in the ability to view concrete situations from many perspectives and generate many ideas such as in a "brainstorming" session. Research shows that Divergers are interested in people and tend to be imaginative and emotional. They tend to be interested in the arts and often have humanities or liberal arts backgrounds. Counselors, organizational development specialists, and personnel managers tend to be characterized by this learning style. 

What are you?

Why does it matter? Different learners will have different kinds of questions that work for them. Typically divergers will ask 'Why?', accomodators will ask 'What if?', assimilators will ask 'What?' and convergers will ask 'How?' So knowing learning styles will help us target questions better.

This learning style stuff also matters because we tend to get kind of stuck in the part of the cycle where we fit most comfortably. In order for learning to be complete, we need to experience, reflect, theorize and experiment. We'll each need a push in different places to make this happen.

What do you think?

Saturday, October 30, 2010

personality prayers for my family

Nathan -
* ESTJ: God, help me to not try to RUN everything. But, if you need some help, just ask!
* ESTP: God, help me to take responsibility for my own actions, even though they’re usually NOT my fault.



Joel
* INTP: Lord, help me be less independent, but let me do it my way.


Micah
???


Andrew
* ISFP: Lord, help me to stand up for my rights (if you don’t mind my asking)

myers briggs prayers

I'm ENTP. Here's my prayer.


Lord, help me follow established procedures today. On second thought, I’ll settle for a few minutes.


Except I wouldn't pray that because I don't want to follow established procedures. At all.


The INTP and ENFP prayers also speak to me:


* INTP: Lord, help me be less independent, but let me do it my way.


* ENFP: God, help me to keep my mind on one th-Look a bird!-ing at a time.


These are heaps of fun. Thanks Jean.

Saturday, February 13, 2010

on depth

Are you a 'deep' person?

I am very deep.  Shockingly so.  Once I drowned in my own thoughts.  That's how deep they went.

But many of you out there, won't have the natural depth that I do.  Nathan, we're told, doesn't.  If you worry that you don't appear deep to your friends and collegues, let me offer you a cosmetic solution.

Things to do to appear to be a 'deep thinker'.

1. In a conversation, what often happens is that someone describes a situation and the apparently shallow person knows immediately what's going on or what needs to be done. (Often their assessment is correct.) If this is you, my advice is: sit on your thoughts. Don't share them. Then come back the next day and say that you've thought about their situation and you think..... They'll think you are amazing (instead of superficial and arrogant)

2. If you are the type who goes to the trouble to make conversation, don't.  Small talk appears shallow.  Let others take responsibility for the movement of the conversation. Don't sulk, but just don't say much. If you are asked a straight question, answer politely, but in such a way as it doesn't lead to more conversation. While you're not speaking, look as if you are wrapped up in your own deep deep thoughts.

3. Carry around an anthology of indecipherable poems. Quote from it occasionally.

4. Take your fonting and general desktop publishing style back to 1990. I know that it will hurt, but to some people, any attention to the more superficial things indicates a lack on the deeper levels.

5. Read lots of self help books (or at least, buy such books and leave them on your coffee table) and try to get to the bottom of the reasons why you are such a lousy sinner - daddy issues, heart hunger... whatever. When someone asks about one of your self help titles, wipe a tear from the corner of your eye...

Yes, I see the irony in all this. Here is a superficial solution to the problem of lack of depth. But my well thought out and deep assessment of the problem is that until your introverted melancholic friends (for it is usually them who bring these charges) understand that depth isn't expressed in the same way by everyone, the appearance of depth is the most for which you can aim.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

SLUAI

SLUAI  [social, limbic, unstructured, accommodating, inquisitive)

(3.9% of women; 2.9% of men)

easily confused, often late, rarely prepared, passionate about better the world's condition, easily distracted, wild and crazy, longs for a stabilizing relationship, prone to addiction, often rushed, show off, prone to worry, frequently loses things, does not accomplish work on time, acts without thinking, not good at sports, easily hurt, scatter-brained, very curious, spontaneous, not too hard working, aware of how the color and lighting of a room affects their mood, believes in a supernatural source of peace and love, can be talked into doing silly things, unpredictable, asks many questions, interested in others, upset by the misfortunes of strangers, believes in the importance of art, prefers have many different interests to just one, does not often know why they do things, moody, likes to be the center of attention, swayed by emotions, focuses on fantasies more than reality, acts without planning, becomes overwhelmed by events, able to disregard the rules, not good at saving money, eager to sooth hurt feelings, afraid of doing the wrong thing, can become aggressive when they feel hurt

Yep.  Harsh assessment.  I think I have it in me to be some of the bad things the list says, but hopefully the grace of God is helping me not to be.  (But I am hardworking and do meet deadlines.)

I think I prefer Myers Briggs.  More flattering.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

ENTP disfavored careers

personal assistant, wedding planner, travel agent, secretary, interior decorator, clerical employee, government employee, social worker, pre school teacher, copy editor, child care worker, hospitality worker, occupational therapist, home maker  (from here)

Why fight it?  Home making is just not me!

Big 45 Test Result

I have other stuff I should be doing, so I'm wasting time here.


Advanced Big 45 Personality Test Results
Gregariousness |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 82%
Sociability |||||||||||||||||||||||| 78%
Assertiveness |||||||||||||||||||||||| 78%
Poise |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 86%
Leadership |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 90%
Provocativeness ||||||||||||||||||||| 70%
Self-Disclosure ||||||||||||||||||||| 62%
Talkativeness |||||||||||||||||||||||| 74%
Group Attachment ||||||||||||||| 46%
Extroversion |||||||||||||||||||||||| 74%
Understanding ||||||||||||||||||||| 70%
Warmth |||||||||||||||||| 58%
Morality ||||||||||||||| 42%
Pleasantness |||||||||||||||||| 58%
Empathy |||||||||||||||||| 58%
Cooperation |||||||||||||||||| 54%
Sympathy ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Tenderness ||||||||||||||| 50%
Nurturance ||||||||||||||||||||| 62%
Accommodation |||||||||||||||||| 57%
Conscientiousness ||||||||| 30%
Efficiency ||||||||||||||| 42%
Dutifulness |||||||||||| 34%
Purposefulness ||||||||||||||| 42%
Organization ||||||||||||||||||||| 62%
Cautiousness |||||||||||| 38%
Rationality ||||||||||||||| 46%
Perfectionism ||||||||||||||| 46%
Planning ||||||||| 26%
Orderliness |||||||||||| 40%
Stability ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Happiness |||||||||||||||||||||||| 74%
Calmness ||||||||||||||||||||| 62%
Moderation ||||||||||||||| 46%
Toughness ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Impulse Control ||||||||||||||| 42%
Imperturbability ||||||||||||||| 42%
Cool-headedness ||||||||||||||||||||| 62%
Tranquility |||||||||||| 38%
Emotional Stability |||||||||||||||||| 55%
Intellect |||||||||||||||||||||||| 78%
Ingenuity |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 86%
Reflection ||||||||||||||||||||| 70%
Competence |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 86%
Quickness ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Introspection ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Creativity |||||||||||||||||||||||| 78%
Imagination |||||||||||||||||||||||||||| 82%
Depth ||||||||||||||||||||| 66%
Openmindedness |||||||||||||||||||||||| 75%
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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

understand me!

I think many people find me a pain in the neck to work with.  But I'm not.  I'm just a poor, misunderstood ENTP...  Okay.  I am annoying.  But understand me and working with me may be less painful.  Ten things.

1. I hate asking people to do thing.  I really hate it, so I put it off and put it off until it's absolutely the last minute and then I ask... but not very well - often I minimise what needs to be done, doing as much myself as I can - then I look like a one-woman band who doesn't actually want anyone else's help...

2. I run on enthusiasm.  I can move small mountains when inspired by a new project.  When my enthusiasm runs out (usually after the creative stage of the job is over), I need people to carry me.

3. I'm an up front person.  I'd rather a class of 25 than a single kid.  When on my game, I do upfront stuff well (eg. together time in Sunday school) and it costs me very little.  Don't assume I'll competently transition to a smaller group.

4. I'm a big picture person.  Unless it's my current pet project, I will not be able to deal with details.

5. I want to know you.  Sit down and talk to me about something significant and I'll love it.

6. I think fairly quickly.  Women often feel intimidated by this, mistaking it for cleverness.  I'm not particularly smart.  Talk to me for long enough and you'll realise.

7. I have ridiculously high standards for material that I have to use (eg. bible studies, sunday school curriculum, school lessons, recipes...) Mostly, if I haven't written it myself, I'll hate it.  I know this is stupid but I run on creative buzz and there is no buzz for me in using other people's stuff.  The least painful thing for me to do is make my own bible studies, school resources and sunday school material.  You shouldn't feel you need to follow my lead on this.

8.  I'm a routine person.  I don't carry a diary and it stresses me out having non-routine stuff locked in heaps in advance.  If you ask me to do something with you in 2 weeks, I'll look confused.  Ask me to do something now and I'll be keen.  Does this mean I'm a STABO person?

9. I have a very bad memory for names.

10.  If you give me something, I will lose it.  If you send it in an email, I'll have it forever.

What do you wish people understood about you?

Friday, January 8, 2010

6 issues I have with 'Introverts in the church'

It seems that there isn't a negative review of this book anywhere on the internet.  Everyone else loves it, so I'm probably wrong.  Of course, a lot of my annoyance could be put down to the fact that I'm an extrovert and this book is not about me.  But it is about me - or it feels like it anyway - and I'm the baddy.  Extrovert or introvert, read it if the topic interests you.  There's some good and useful stuff and you'll probably learn something.

Here are my criticisms, in list form.

1. It over-generalises.
It reads very much like a book I've recently read on dyslexia.  Written by a dyslexic, the book was all about how dyslexics are brilliant, gifted and misunderstood people.  There were many over generalisations about how dyslexics think, learn and act... and a 'the world is against us' air about it. This book is similar.  The extrovert/introvert difference is but one part of our personalities.  McHugh very often describes introverts as deep thinkers.  I don't think that deep thinking is a function of introversion - but something else (they Myers Briggs profiles have a thinking/feeling category).  I know many introverts who are not thinkers.  They have no constant internal monologue happening, they are not particularly reflective, they are not really interested in thinking profound thoughts.  But they are introverts.  McHugh flags his difficulty in isolating his introversion from other parts of his personality (p35) and I think this is perhaps the biggest weakness with the book.  Perhaps it could be better titled "ISTJ*s in the church".  

2. I think it's written to the American church.
Things are a little different here in Australia.  Megachurch isn't where we are at.  I don't think most Australian christians would classify Jesus as an extrovert.

3.  McHugh confuses the struggles of humanity with the struggles of introverts.
On page 50 he writes, "While extroverts commonly feel lonliness when others are absent, introverts can feel most lonely when others are present, because ours is the aching loneliness of not being known or understood."  But this 'introverted' loneliness is surely what loneliness is - felt by introvert and extrovert alike!  The life-of-the-party extrovert can be desperately lonely while entertaining a crowd.  The 'aching loneliness of not being known or understood' is felt even more acutely by the person who has heaps of friendships - even deep friendships - and is still unsatisfied.

4. McHugh misunderstands extroverts (ie. McHugh misunderstands me!).
I'm an extrovert and I need loads of time by myself.  Intense people stuff wears me out too.  I'm a thinker.  I have a constant, noisy internal monologue happening.  I treat my ideas as my children.  While I can do broad and shallow, I much, much prefer to spend time with one or two really good friends.

5.  I'm not sure why, but his complete lack of reference to children and parenthood** annoyed me.

6.  His bent towards a mystic spirituality is one that I don't share.

*or whatever he happens to be.

**The only mention of parenthood that I can recall, was when he was talking about how extroverted parents mess up their introverted kids.

I'd be interested in what others think.  Particularly introverts - Jean? Helen?  And extroverts - Nathan? (I'm thinking this would get on Nathan's nerves even more than it got on mine!)  Everyone, actually.  I ordered my copy from the book depository.  It didn't cost much. Read it and tell me that I'm ungracious and wrong and I'll repent.

In a couple of days I might write a list of things I liked about the book to balance things up a bit.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Nehemiah, the (ENTJ) godly Israelite

Andrew is preaching through Nehemiah at the moment. Why wouldn't you? Nehemiah is all about leadership. And leadership is important. We've been chatting together about Nehemiah and there's no doubt that he is impressive. We'd like to be impressive too. So in the grand tradition of poor biblical work we decided put Nehemiah through a Myers-Briggs analysis so we know what personality types we should aspire to.

E or I? - E. Clearly. He was friends with the king.
N or S? - N. He seemed to intuitively know whether or not to trust people.
T or F? - T. Tough call, though. His feelings for Jerusalem affected his actions, but on other occasions his thoughts ruled.
P or J? - J. This is one organised man!

ENTJ. I think we have it! Nehemiah without a doubt!
ENTJ - The Executive
ENTJs are natural born leaders. They live in a world of possibilities where they see all sorts challenges to be surmounted, and they want to be the ones responsible for surmounting them. They have a drive for leadership, which is well-served by their quickness to grasp complexities, their ability to absorb a large amount of impersonal information, and their quick and decisive judgments. They are "take charge" people.
I just need to work on my J-ness. Andrew on his E-ness, N-ness and T-ness.

But...

Nehemiah is about a whole lot more than leadership. Actually, it's about a whole lot apart from leadership. I challenged Andrew to preach the series not using the L word at all. Tricky, but not impossible.

Over here, Andrew has posted brilliantly about what Nehemiah is really about. You should go read. Really, you should. He argues that Nehemiah is the model godly Israelite - a type of Jesus the faithful Israelite, not a type of Jesus the king. He also has some interesting stuff on Nehemiah's first person memoir style.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

ENTP Me!

As a parent:

+'ve - With their fun and upbeat natures, there's a little bit of kid inside all ENTPs. They approach parenthood with a fun-loving attitude which has a serious underlying goal: to make everything a learning exercise (for themselves as well as for their children) which promotes the child's growth into an independent, logical thinker.

-'ve
- The ENTP is likely to be somewhat inconsistent about spending quality time with their children. One minute they will exhibit a lot of interest and enthusiasm towards being around their kids, and will display a great deal of affection for them. However, as soon as they get caught-up in one of their grand schemes for improving a system somewhere, they're likely to inadvertantly neglect their kids.

As a spouse:

+'ve - fun, enthusiastic, wild and willing while committed to the relationship.

-'ve - committment to the relationship may last as long as two weeks! Always excited by anything new, they may change partners frequently.

As a friend:

+'ve - ENTPs are flexible and easy-going, and genuinely enjoy interacting with others. They are likely to choose to surround themselves with people who are intelligent, capable, and idea-oriented. They love nothing better than engaging in a good debate with someone who can hold their end of the conversation. This will stimulate and energize the ENTP, who is highly competitive and loves to discuss theories.

-'ve - Can be unsympathetic. Can fall into the practice of one-upmanship. Tendency to not follow through on their plans and ideas. Their love of debate may cause them to provoke arguments.

[from here.]

I love this stuff. Naval gazing is a delightful activity.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

every woman needs a room

Apparently, every woman needs a room of her own to decorate herself, carry out her projects etc. What would your room look like? How would you decorate it? What would you put in it? What would you do in it?

[Guys, you can answer too.]

Here's mine.

I don't need a room. Just a table in a coffee shop. Nice comfy chair (lounge style), space I can work with unlimited caffeine drinks and lots of people to look at. Backpack with a jumper (and, if I could get away with it, a blanket - I like to be warm), lots of pencils, 3 scribble books (one blank, 2 with lines), and a few books/articles to read. My table would be in a corner or along a wall, but I'd need to be sitting so I could watch everyone walk by.

How about you?

ENTP

Got to love personality profiles that tell you how great you are.


As an ENTP, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you take things in primarily via your intuition. Your secondary mode is internal, where you deal with things rationally and logically.

With Extraverted Intuition dominating their personality, the ENTP's primary interest in life is understanding the world that they live in. They are constantly absorbing ideas and images about the situations they are presented in their lives. Using their intuition to process this information, they are usually extremely quick and accurate in their ability to size up a situation. With the exception of their ENFP cousin, the ENTP has a deeper understanding of their environment than any of the other types.

This ability to intuitively understand people and situations puts the ENTP at a distinct advantage in their lives. They generally understand things quickly and with great depth. Accordingly, they are quite flexible and adapt well to a wide range of tasks. They are good at most anything that interests them. As they grow and further develop their intuitive abilities and insights, they become very aware of possibilities, and this makes them quite resourceful when solving problems.

ENTPs are idea people. Their perceptive abilities cause them to see possibilities everywhere. They get excited and enthusiastic about their ideas, and are able to spread their enthusiasm to others. In this way, they get the support that they need to fulfill their visions.

Does anyone have a dud personality type?

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Careful how you hold your glass!

















The way you hold your glass can reveal much more than you might realise, a psychologist has warned.

Dr Glenn Wilson, a consultant psychologist, observed the body language of 500 drinkers and divided them into eight personality types.

These were the flirt, the gossip, fun lover, wallflower, the ice-queen, the playboy, Jack-the-lad and browbeater. [From here.]

Hmm. How do you hold your glass? Guess how I hold mine...